First, great wordsmithing! Second, welcome to discovering the beauty, sorrow, and joy of learning to live in unity; two become one. Third, keep your vows! We just celebrated our 38th anniversary. Our two boys have become men. We are now grandparents. The blessings of matrimony teach us to surrender our selfish ways, love one another unconditionally, and to embrace the labyrinth of life in ecstacy; we discover within our eternal Self. In conclusion, image your life as a family being your greatest joy because when we keep our vows, life becomes beautiful. Godspeed to you and yours.