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How We Can Stop Fighting With Each Other
Learn one word that makes a massive difference.
Let's start with you.
How do you treat yourself when the business of life doesn't go your way or you are confronted by a difficult person causing you to fear or grieve?
I usually get the answer: "Nobody treats me worse than I treat myself when I do something stupid or wrong."
That is a universal dilemma until we learn to accept ourselves better. The same is true when getting along with others, especially the people, places, or things that truly set us off.
This article is about helping more of us switch from judgment and anger to unconditional acceptance, love, and compassion, beginning with how we treat ourselves.
In short, this article is about helping us improve ourselves and the world around us.
The Problem Is Us
Look around. What do you see? Is what you see the same or different from what I see and others?
You bet. Working on yourself is the first step to ending the fighting within and around you. See yourself as part of the solution, and you'll experience fewer problems.
That's because what bothers us is within us. That's the only way we can recognize a…
